It is NOT a Morbid Hobby

It is called Find a Grave and it is documenting the burial place or final disposition location of persons around the world though it originated in the United States and most of the entries are located there.

As we travel we go on the website and search for small cemeteries near where we are staying. On the Find a Grave website people have posted the information about someone for whom they would like a photo of that person’s grave marker to be posted on the Find s Grave page for that person. We make a list of the requests, then visit the cemetery, photograph the graves we can find and post them to the Find a Grave website. The comments we receive at times from the requestor can be quit heart warming. We feel it a worth while thing to do.

This cemetery was far out in the country and contained only 176 graves. (We learned many, many years ago that trying to find graves to photograph in large cemeteries unless they have a grave locator is a fools errand.) There were requests for photos of five grave markers. We were able to to find four of the five after looking at every grave marker in the cemetery twice. (We have learned over the years that people will put in requests for multiple cemeteries in an area because they do not know where the person was buried.) Let’s just say those requestors are place on our equivalent of the do not fly list.

This is certainly not a hobby for everyone. Likely it is hobby for very few people. The other side is that we have requested photos for ancestors and someone has taken their valuable time to search for the grave we requested and photographed it for us. My great-grandfather who was totally unknown to me until I took a DNA test was a case in point. Both my wife and I try to pay forward this very special, but little known endeavor as often as we can because Wetruly know from first hand experience how unbelievably heart warming it can be. Life is short, live it to its fullest.

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